Saturday, 15 July 2017

It's all about your perspective

          Amidst the nature green and heavy downpour of rain, with a roof above your head and a hot steaming cup of coffee in your hand,  it feels like Einstein’s “The theory of relativity” is applied, Hours together that has gone by, seems like a fraction of a second.

          For anything that happens in this world, each and every individual will have his own set of perspective towards it. The way he sees the life is way totally different than any other individual in the world.

           Few things or event can be so much blissful to one individual and the very same thing may be of much irritation to others.

           Each Individual would have different perspective for any event or situation that’s happening in his life.

           Taking an example, a ban on plastic bags in one’s perspective maybe a bad thing where in the shopkeepers don’t give you plastic and charge you extra for the reusable bags. Whereas in other individual’s perspective, it’s a great step where in the environment is saved from being dustbin from the bags that we throw.

        Similarly, the perspective on fitness is also different, for few fitness comes as most important priority in life, but for few others it would come as ‘let’s follow if time permits’ type of approach, they feel they are busy and don’t have enough time to devote to fitness or so.

           Even during the worst situation in our life, we can opt to see things positively; because we are absolutely what we think of ourselves. This approach in turn makes even the negative things positive.

           As one quote says “Some people look at sunsets as the end of something beautiful that once was: ‘The Day’. Others see it as simply a new beginning to a different, but equally beautiful thing: ‘The Night’. 

Perspective, my people, it’s always perspective. 

 -Sunsets are both a beginning and an end; you are the one to choose

Saturday, 1 July 2017

'No' is the right YES



         
         Its quarter past 12 when I started this article. In spite of writing an article on prioritizing the right things, I was hardly following it.

         Be it at any point of life which we are in, we tend to say YES in order to not make other person feel bad. It is our natural tendency to accept things given by others, after all we feel people seldom give us anything, so our mind is quite stuck with the feeling to grab anything that’s given.

         Be it as small as going out with them for a quick evening coffee and snacks or as big as staying up at night’s for days together to help them with their emotional or intellectual imbalance that’s happening in their life, we make our best not to say NO.

        I believe we are brought up in our lives with a mindset instructing us that rejecting something or someone is kind of offending. With this mindset, in spite of knowing that certain things are negative to us, we tend to accept it by saying YES.

      The more time we take to say NO to wrong things or things that drain us; we are the ones, who would suffer,

      I feel it is much more needed for us to learn to reject and say no to lots of things in our life , the quicker we learn to say no to things that bring us sorrow, the better it is to our life.

At times, “No becomes the right Yes”

After all, you too have got a life of your own that is to filled with positivity and happiness,

Why waste it by filling it out with other’s sorrows and miseries?