Advices

             Does the red tee shirt that I am wearing suit with the dark blue jeans? Runs a question in a random guys mind! Though a small question, it’s hard for him to conclude. Similarly, shall I take a Maybelline colossal kajal or a lakme eyeconic thinks a girl who’s out to shop. Normal questions actually.

              Every individual has different kinds of questions in their day to day life. They would surely be able to answer them by their own but rely on others advice. There would be another person who would assist them in choosing what they do.

             Humans we are! Socializing and depending on others is obviously common thing. But to what extent can we actually rely on others? We do say that only for small things I take advices and majority of the decisions are mine, which often is a lie. Because advices matter! 

             In the present days we are so much dependent on others that the life’s majority of the decisions are made on others review or opinion. Nothing wrong in taking advices I say, but the problem is, are the men giving advices competent enough to give one? Those advices upon which u can rely and make decisions, those advices which plays important role in your life?

      Choosing a sensible advice is an art. Taking advices from the total inexperienced person can prove very costly to you.

             At the end I would like to say a line from the book ‘The richest man in Babylon’, “Advice is one thing that is freely given away, but watch that you take only what is worth having”

Small things do matter!

          

            The morning starts early and the night shuts late.The kids have to go to school and the adults have the work to do. The routine continues without much interruption. The roads at the morning and evening will be swarming with cars, bikes and fully crowded public transports. 

Life is busy everywhere! 

              Irrespective of what we do, we seem busy; we will be busy to notice those little things that pass around us. Those small things which differentiates us from other species of animals. The necessity to help the ones who are in need.

              Something like offering the seat to the old man who could barely stand on a bus rather than plugging in the earphones and ignoring the world out there Or offering a pack of biscuit to the hungry kid who goes to school without a proper breakfast. It can be as small as lending your old pair of clothes to the maids’ kid or passing on your old books to a school going child nearby.

              We often think them as small things, which wouldn’t matter much to anyone and doing those small stuffs is a kind of shame, but to a lot of people in here these things mean a lot.

Small things do matter! It does make a huge difference.

Be Greedy

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s soon as we hear the term greed or being greedy, a sense of negative feel comes out. Of course the dictionary meaning of greed means ‘excessive desire especially for wealth or possessions’. Why it is that being greedy treated as something not cool!? The people who are greedy are often kept aside; they will be the odd man out in the group.

                  We all know that excessive of anything is harmful for us, be it the wealth or possessions. But what if we make greedy ones desire for something positive? Like creating the desire to acquire huge amount of good knowledge? Something very much healthy! We can completely transform the total negative aspect of a word to a total positive one. And as usual the potential in the greedy people would be times more than normal ones. 

                   Easy to say but hard to implement comes a quick reply when it comes to create positive things, but nothing wrong in trying to transform a negative greed into a positive one! After all, negatives and negatives always make positive.

Be positively greedy.

Be Passionate

                   Every human being has a passion. It varies from individual to individual. For few it may be as simple and less expensive as riding their bicycle or dancing to their heart’s content and for few it may be as complicated and as costly as riding an aircraft or driving a sports car.

 

                    Passion is something, which gives us a sense of happiness when we do it. It gives us the ability to give out the 110% of what we do and yes! the extra 10% comes added with a sense of happiness.

 

                   Often people ignore their passion for many reasons, the work pressure or in better terms the necessity to earn a stable income comes at the top. They feel they would go nowhere by following the things they are passionate about.  They feel insecure and negative too. They do things which they are not comfortable doing and work hard round the clock in a job which gives them a good amount of pay. 

 

                 But it still remains, what’s the use of doing things which doesn’t give you any happiness? Follow your heart and do things that you are passionate about! Do the things that make you happy. Because they are the only things which let you give the extra 10%.