crushes! yes or no?

            Every individual have crushes! For few of them it may be the actors acting on the big screens and for few others it might be someone of their class or neighborhood. 

           Crushes are those people who makes you blush! The one who makes your heart skip a beat. Even a small glance of them makes you happy. You forget your worries; you forget what you were doing as soon as you see your crush.

          What we usually tend to forget is the effect which ‘crushes’ can put in our life. We forget what happens to our way of life when we have crushes.

 

          There can be drastic changes in the pattern of our life, we tend to wait for long time for the texts of our crushes, and our moods brighten as soon as we get the replies or we get mood swings when our crush doesn’t reply properly.

         There can be something like an uncommon attachment towards that person, even though you hardly converse with them.

        Psychologists say that crushes last only for 4 months, if it exceeds that time, it usually will be associated with love! Which often turns out to be a one sided love.

          One sided love often turns out to be an utter disappointment as there will always be a negativity complex or the fear of rejection in us.

          We tend to lose the productive part of us if we start to waste our time for the crushes. 

         Even though crushes can help us to be productive in a way such as developing oneself to impress the crush, it often turns out to be a disappointed one, as it’s always advisable to impress ourselves than impressing other person.

So it’s up to you to see how you spend your time! By being productive or by waiting for the reply or smile of your crush!