Being Unapologetic.

         

         Apologizing for the mistakes done is one of the best gestures of politeness. This very often is given less and less importance in today’s days.

         Many a times we apologize. Not because we have made any mistakes but because we feel the other one is uncomfortable of us doing anything.

         I personally used to apologize for the smallest of dis comfortableness the opposite one felt. I thought it was part of being polite.

 Yes it’s absolutely necessary to admit the mistakes that we have done and apologize for that, but we at times to preserve the politeness, bend more than it is actually necessary and very often this is being misused by the opposite one.

 Its better we stop the earliest apologizing for the person we are. If the other person feels dis comfort for the way we are it’s their problem and not ours!

         Why lose our self-esteem for the mistakes that we never committed? Why should we let ourselves get cheap for others discomfort? It’s a good time we start to value ourselves more and be happy.

 I feel it’s okay to be called rude all the time than lose our own identity.