Not always life goes on with assumptions.

             I am that kind of person who thinks a bit extra for each and every situation!

             Before doing anything we would very well analyze the consequence of doing it. Something like, what would happen if we speak in certain manner with elderly people or what will be consequence if I go and behave rudely with an arrogant bus conductor or something like the idea of complimenting a good looking lady!

         There would be countless situations in our lives wherein we just go on assuming the consequences or the responses from other sides!

            Be it something very much positive thing such as planting few sapling and nurturing it, we assume that we won’t be having time to look after it so, let us not plant any! 

            Or supposedly when a girl/guy pings you and says “If you feel like speaking to me please do text or call me” We start to assume lots of hidden possibilities with that sentence! 

               Assumption may range from the person liking you or having a best friend who may be interested in you or so on…. In reality that girl/guy might just want to talk to you and nothing else! May be just wanted to have a meaningful conversation!!

Assumptions make us overthink!

            Many a times we start to think on those items which hinder our productivity! Our minds will be occupied by useless stuffs which simply waste our time and spoil our mood! 

           Rather than go on assuming things, why not we bring the plan into action! And overthink later on?

Not always life goes on with assumptions!

 

              Sometimes we just have to let things happen, because there are many things in life that would possibly happen much more wonderfully than what we can assume it to happen!

Support from the other half.

         There has been a rapid and substantial progress in the percentage of ‘Earners’ in our country. Several of reasons have backed for this rapid progress. Right from focus on education to training people on skill development and so on. 

If you are thinking like... Is it a bad thing? Absolutely not!

The individuals are being well educated and are into well paid/earning fields. Of course while marrying or living in with each other the basic criteria seen would be of financial security and education along with a pinch of something called as ‘love’.

           I watched the movie Ki and ka today. It did seem funny at the beginning where in the male of the house takes the job of running the home and female goes for the earning! 

          Of course our way of thinking has progressed a lot because in the past a female who would earn were quite less in number and now there are lots of women who earn well and are independent and we have proudly accepted it.

         Okay… all of the above are just facts! Which you would obviously know! 

         Hitting on the point that I had to convey, would it be comfortable if the other half of us starts to prosper? Prosper in a very great scale?

Right from being totally dependent towards super popular role model? 

          I feel we have developed that bad mentality where in it would be very hard for us to break the fact that ‘Anyone who is dependent on us can become totally independent and prosper’

            Everyone is filled with awesomely great amount of potential and it would take a pinch of extra time for them to set their passion on track.

           It is for us to be the one who supports the dependent in spreading out their wings by kicking out our ego and help them move towards the path of success rather than feel jealous/insecure about them and cut off their wings!

After all, without the support given by our other half!

We would be nothing but just ‘The half!’