Let the other half of you be an asset to you and not a liability!

            Being in a good relationship is aspired by everyone. But only few of them succeed in them. There might be lots of reason for the failure of relationships but it hardly matters.

            The beginning of any relationship seems like we are in the cloud 9 but as the time passes it seems like carrying some amount of weight on our back. A good relationship is that where you have a person who loves you more than anyone else in the world. 

            As the time passes why the bliss in the relationship diminishes? Why do we feel that something is pulling us back from achieving great amount of success? Something like a heavy stone tied to our leg.

          Is that we got committed too early? Is that we are committed to the wrong person? So many questions run around in the mind.

          What kind of person should I go along with? You may have this question in you. It’s you who know better than anyone else about what kind of person you want! Taking advices on selecting a person isn’t a good idea. 

          Be with someone who you feel glad to be with! The external beauty doesn’t matter much. Not that I say you to be with someone who is less attractive and makes you feel low. 

Be with someone who lifts up your mood when you have just passed a hopeless situation. 

Be with that person who points out your potentials and nurtures it which even you were not aware of.

Be with that one who lets you grow and be yourself.

As Stephanie Althoff says ‘you should fall in love with someone who inspires you’ 

A relationship will be a successful one only if both of them think they have got someone more than they deserve.

Let the other half of you be an asset to you and not a liability!