I want to be in relationship with the one who lets me 'Be Myself'

             It’s usually thought that only the girls will be scared to get into relationship. But being a guy I am hell more scared about getting into relationships. I am sure that there are many more guys who think the way I am thinking about the relationships. 

            If you ask me ‘being a guy why the hell are you scared of relationship? If one girl doesn’t match your taste, chuck out and move to another one? Being a guy you can easily switch over.’

             I say I am scared because I might change, I might change the whole of myself only to get attention of an attractive girl and be with her. 

             I would be the one which that girl expects me to be and start to do the things that she likes me to do. I would then buy the things which she like me to buy and wear those outfits which she likes me to wear followed by eating the things that she likes me to eat.

 

            It’s nothing like I am against being in relationship; it’s one of the most blissful things in the world one can experience. It’s like having someone who would love you more than any other person in the world.

            But being in such relationship by which you wouldn’t be yourself and be that someone which is liked by other person isn’t something that gives a long time enjoyment.

             I want to be in such relationship where my girl is happy that I am being myself, I want to be with that girl who feels happy with the things that I like to do. I want to be with that girl who is okay with me eating what I like to eat and be comfortable with what I like to wear. 

             I want to be with someone who likes me for who I am and what I do.  I feel it’s okay to wait for some time for that person rather than rush up and go with someone who doesn’t like the original me.

I feel that’s what being in blissful relationship is? Isn’t it?